Week in Review: Tears

This was a difficult, tear-filled week for my emotional first grader. For his privacy, I won’t go in to details. For my own, I’ll add that this is an intensely personal post.
As the screams and tears continued from one day to the next, I found myself wondering, however, if for my sanity I needed to send him to school. Let someone else deal with the ups and downs for the day. I could handle the night if I could just get a break during the day.
But I realized quickly that this would solve nothing. He would still struggle to deal with the issues at hand, but he would be far from me. I would not know. Beyond not knowing, though, I would not be learning the patience and love that I learn by having him here with me.
There is a reason I am a mother. It is for in these moments of trial that I learn and improve myself as well. Continue reading →

List It Tuesday: The First Five Laminated Items

laminatingI’ve mentioned that I purchased a laminator. It is so much fun. For List it Tuesday (at Many Little Blessings and Weird, Unsocialized Homeschoolers),  I thought I’d share the first five things I have laminated. This is just the first few days! I can tell, there will be far more coming and many more already added to it (such as yesterday’s game). Continue reading →

Making Multiplication Review Fun: Multiplication Product SPLAT (Freebie included)

In my third-grade daily school journal, pretty much every entry ends with “I like Mrs. Gray” (my teacher) and “I hate math.” Some journal entries were just a simple “I hate math.” We must have written in our journals right after math? At any rate, I’ve always disliked it.

I remember the reason too: multiplication. The timed worksheets drove me crazy. It was so hard for me to remember, and I had to sit at the desk until I was done. It was so boring!

The Challenge of Multiplication

Learning math from the beginning as I teach my son, however, has been fun. I better see the connections. I love, also, how he was exposed to both multiplication and division as concepts in the first-grade book! 

One of the things I love about my son’s math curriculum (Miquon Math) is the thoroughness with which it addresses the building blocks and relationships between different mathematical concepts. I love the emphasis on hands-on learning (such as using the centimeter rods to help grasp a concept) and, although the majority of the curriculum book seems at first glance to be worksheet-based, I feel that with my help we make the concepts fun, clear, and a whole lot more interesting than math was back in my school days.

 We are now at the beginning of the first half of the second-grade books, and we’re back to multiplication again. But when I pulled out a multiplication worksheet last week, he panicked and froze. He couldn’t do this, he insisted.

I realized it was time to change things up.

Multiplication Fun with Fly Swatters

Enter Multiplication Product SPLAT.

I started today with the x3s and I made it in to a fun game with a fly swatter (called a product swatter), smirky flies just asking to be squashed flat, and “chalkboards” that give him the problem. I let him find answers with the centimeter rods, and I did not pressure him with a timer. It worked so well. You should have seen him attacking those flies again and again once he had discovered the right answer!

I think Multiplication Product Splat would be fun in a class setting too (letting the kids race against each other). For us, it was just right for my son alone. I plan on adding in x4 tomorrow, and maybe more on different days!

For today, though, I’m just glad we breezed through multiplication practice with no tears! He told me afterwards that he really like the flies part but he did not like the solving problems part. Of course, the standard complaint. The difference is, he did it anyway . . . complaint free and fast! If we had done a worksheet with the x3s, it would have taken far longer. 

I made up a set with x3 and x4, x5, x6, x7, x8, and x9 for purchase on this site and TeachersPayTeachers!

Of course, you could use a real fly swatter and write the products on the chalkboard, calling out the problems as you please. But I think it’s pretty fun to smush those pesky flies!

What do you do to make practicing and understanding the times tables fun and active?

Two Years!

Two years ago, Caroline Rose Reid pushed her way in to the world. She looked around the room with wide eyes and did not say anything. The nurses pinched her, rubbed her, washed, poked needles in her and still she looked at them and did not say anything. Then, she closed her eyes and went to sleep.

Two days later and she still had not cried. She was in a warming bed in the Special Care Nursery where, when she woke, a nurse was right there to change her, call me to come feed her, and otherwise hold her to keep her calm.

But Caroline was calm. She was taking it all in. The lights, the noises, the comfort. Why would she cry? She had it all.

The nurses laughed when we expressed concern over her lack of crying. “She’ll figure it out,” they insisted.

Were they ever right! Caroline is a bundle of energy and noise, a package of life and emotion. She laughs, she screams, she loves.

And we love her. Her first words each morning are a call for Paul. His first words are the question, “Can I go talk to Caroline?” (when her door is still closed in the morning).

Caroline follows us around and insists on “I do it!” and “Me!” She knows the concepts of “mine!” and “Share!” and won’t hesitate to tell you what she wants. She won’t hesitate to tell you want she does not want, too, and if she does not want what you want her to do, she will not let you do it.

She’s sensitive and selfish, crying with others who are sad (or asking “are you okay?”) and screaming if she does not get what she wants in any given moment.

She’s wiggly and cuddly, wiggly when it’s a quiet moment (such as sacrament meeting) and cuddly when the lights are low and she is sleepy.

She’s a bundle of fun, as she pretends: her fork is a dancing monkey, or her sippy cup of milk is sleepy, and wants a lullaby or she is a fish swimming through the bathtub.

She’s as tender as a new mother when she holds her baby dolls, singing the songs I sing to her.

She’s as wild as an animal as she runs into the water, jumping and splashing and dunking her own head under, only to come up sputtering and coughing with a laugh on her face.

We love Caroline. I can’t wait to see how this already talking toddler baby becomes a little girl in the next year. Although, I kind of want to hold her tight and cherish her toddler-hood for the next twenty years!

Week in Review: Distracted

This week has been full of distractions! I can’t say we got much school done, but it was a great week for learning, so I am not too worried. I keep telling myself that Raisin is already ahead for his age, so why rush through thing just to say we did?
That said, I need to refocus on planning my week a little bit more. It might be a little less difficult in the midst of the week if it was planned to begin with! Continue reading →

Figurative Language, Similes and Metaphor

MentorMonday2-17-14This week’s Mentor Monday (a link up feature at The Reading Tutor/OG blog) is about using text to help teach figurative language. I realize I am a day late this week, but I am very excited about this topic and have a few perfect books to highlight similes and metaphors.
mentor monday similes and metaphors Continue reading →

Week in Review: Valentine’s Day

ValentineLast year, I was a pretty new blogger and Valentine’s Day week was very stressful to me because we did not get school “done.” I feel like laughing at my reaction last year.
I am a lot more laid back this year.
This year, Raisin decorated Valentines on the computer again and we went to our Valentine’s Day bowling party. It was not that stressful, and our week was rather laid back, although I did bring out the math worksheets again to get something more formal done for school. Today we will do a little bit of school, and then we will have play dates. Continue reading →

Finding Support from the Well-Trained Mind Community

Well trained mind forumIt’s very late on Thursday, but I did want to get this up for you today, a Teaching with Technology post for the homeschool teacher!
Although today’s featured site is not one used in front of students, it does provide assistance for the homeschool parent (me!) in preparing lessons, planning for the future, and getting commiseration on the difficult days.
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